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Bitewe n\u2019igihe mumaranye, ibihe byiza mwagiranye n\u2019ibindi, hari ubwo kwikuramo uwo mwahoze mukundana biba ingorabahizi ndetse hari abo bitwara imyaka myinshi barananiwe kurenga uwo murongo, kabone n\u2019ubwo bagira abakunzi bashya yewe bakanashaka.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Ibi byazinduye abashakashatsi bo muri Kaminuza ya Illinois Urbana-Champaign, mu Ishami ryayo ry\u2019Iyigamitekerereze (Department of Psychology), aho bari bagamije kureba muri rusange igihe bitwara kugira ngo umuntu wakunze undi mu buryo bufatika, abe ashoboye kumwikuramo.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Ubu bushakashatsi bwagaragaje ko nyuma yo gutandukana n\u2019uwari umukunzi wawe, bigusaba imyaka ine kugira ngo utangire kumva umeze neza ku rugero runaka kuko uba utagifite intimba ikabije nk\u2019uko byari bimeze mugitandukana.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Ni ubushakashatsi bwagiye hanze ku wa 12 Werurwe 2025, bunyuzwa ku rubuga rwa \u2019Social Psychological and Personality Science\u2019 rw\u2019Abanyamerika.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Inzobere mu bumenyi bw\u2019imitekerereze n\u2019imyitwarire ya muntu, Jia Y. 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