Uko Ubukwe bwa Kinyafurika n’Ubw’Abazungu Bukomeje Gukundwa No Kwubahwa ku Isi
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Uko Ubukwe bwa Kinyafurika n’Ubw’Abazungu Bukomeje Gukundwa No Kwubahwa ku Isi

Nubwo butandukanye mu migenzo, ubukwe bwombi buhuriza ku gukomeza umuryango, kwiyemeza no gutangira inzira nshya y’ubuzima hagati y’abashakanye

Ubukwe ni kimwe mu birori bikomeye kandi bitegerejwe n’abantu benshi ku isi, kuko buba bugamije kubaha isezerano rihuje abantu babiri bahitamo kubana ubuzima bwabo bwose. Nubwo buri muco ugira uko yitegura n’ukuntu yishimira uwo munsi ukomeye, ubukwe bwa Kinyafurika n’ubw’Abazungu (bizwi cyane nk’“white wedding”) biri mu bwamamaye kurusha ubundi bwose ku isi. Ubwa Kinyafurika bukundwa kubera umuco wabwo uremereye kandi ukungahaye ku migenzo, naho ubw’Abazungu bukundirwa uburanga, ubwitonzi n’ubworoherane bwabwo.

Icyakora, nubwo imigenzo itandukanye, intego irahura: gutanga isezerano, kwinjira mu isezerano ryera ry’ivangamutungo, no gutangira ubuzima bushya bubahuza.

Imigenzo isharira kandi y’akataraboneka y’ubukwe bwa Kinyafurika

Mu bihugu byinshi bya Afurika, ubukwe bwa kinyafurika ni ibirori bifite imbaraga kandi bigakorwa mu buryo busakaza umunezero mu gace kose. Birangwa n’imbyino, indirimbo, imyambaro irabagirana ndetse n’amafunguro ategurwa mu buryo bwihariye.

Akenshi ibirori bikorerwa mu rugo rw’umukobwa cyangwa urw’umuhungu, bikitabirwa n’abaturanyi, inshuti n’imiryango yagutse. Iyo bibereye muri hoteli cyangwa mu nyubako zigezweho, akenshi biba ari imiryango ifite ubushobozi ishaka guhuza umuco n’ubusirimuke bw’igihe. Mu bihugu bitandukanye, hoteli zisaga ibihumbi zatangiye kwakira ubukwe bw’umuco butandukanye burimo ubw’AbaMaasai, AbaHindu, AbaMayan n’abandi.

Lauren Kay, umwanditsi wungirije wa The Knot, avuga ko ubukwe bw’umuco bukundwa n’abatarabogamiye ku idini runaka. Agira ati: “Ni uburyo bubafasha kwihangira imigenzo yabo no kutifatanya n’ibyo basanze bihari.”

Ibi binashimangirwa na ba rwiyemezamirimo bategura ubukwe bavuga ko abageni bakomeje kwifuza umuco n’imigenzo y’inkomoko yabo. Urugero rugaragara ni mu bukwe bw’AbaMaasai, aho abagabo bagera kuri makumyabiri baza bambaye amashuka, bakazana imijishi itwitse, naho abashyitsi bambara imyambaro iremetse mu ibara ryatoranyijwe n’umuryango.

Umwihariko n’ubudasa bw’ubukwe bw’Abazungu

Ubukwe bw’Abazungu, bwatangiriye mu Bwongereza, bumenyekana cyane kubera ikanzu yera y’umugeni yambara ari nayo bwakomoyeho izina. Bukunze kubera mu rusengero aho umupadiri aha umugisha abageni, bagasezerana urukundo, ubutabera n’ubudahemuka.

Umuhanga mu mateka y’ubukwe, Catherine Dunak, avuga ko nyuma ya 1940 ari bwo ubu bukwe bwabaye uburyo bukomeye bw’ukwizihiza ubukwe. Sinema nka Father of the Bride yabugize kimwe mu bimenyetso by’ubukwe bw’akataraboneka.

Ariko mu myaka ya kera, ubukwe bw’Abazungu ntibwari buhenze cyangwa ngo busabe igihe kirekire mu gutegurwa. Mu kinyejana cya 19 n’icya 20, abageni benshi basezeranaga mu buryo bworoheje, rimwe na rimwe batanateguye amezi menshi nk’uko bigenda muri iki gihe.

Nubwo kenshi bugaragara nk’ubukwe bw’akataraboneka buhuza imiryango neza, na bwo bwabaye urubuga rwo kuganiriraho ibibazo birebana n’imyemerere, uruhare rw’abagore n’abagabo mu rugo, imiterere y’urushako ndetse n’imyitwarire y’abashakanye.

Icyo ubukwe bwombi buhuje: Umunezero, ubumwe n’imibanire

Nubwo imigenzo itandukanye, ubukwe bwombi buhuza imiryango igahura ngo yishimane. Habaho gusangira amafunguro, imbyino, impano n’ibindi biranga ibirori. Mu myaka yo hagati y’ikinyejana cya 20, abageni benshi batangiye gukoresha ubukwe mu kugaragaza umuco wabo, ibyishimo n’ibyo bemera, ibintu byatumye ubukwe buba ifatabuguzi ryo kugaragaza umwihariko w’umuryango.

Icyo abantu bose bahurizaho ni uko ubukwe ari umunsi w’ibyishimo, w’amateka mashya, w’amafoto, indirimbo n’ibyishimo bitazibagirana.

Ibirori bijyanishwa n’ahantu: Ubukwe bukorerwa mu mahanga no mu muco usangiwe

Muri iki gihe, abageni benshi bahitamo ubukwe bukorerwa mu bihugu bitandukanye (destination weddings), bagahuza imico y’aho bari n’uw’inkomoko yabo. Jack Ezon, washinze kompanyi yo gutegura ubukwe Embark yo muri New York, avuga ko yateguye ubukwe bwinshi burimo n’ubwabereye i Marrakesh muri Maroc, aho umukobwa yakorewe umuhango wa henna witabiriwe n’abagore 200.

Aya makoraniro aba arimo umuco, ingendo n’inyigisho ntagereranywa zihuza abantu.

Inzira ndende itangira nyuma y’ibirori: Kuba mu rugo bisaba ubwitonzi n’ubushishozi

Nubwo ubukwe bwa Kinyafurika bushimangira uruhare rw’umuryango n’umuco mu kuramba kw’urushako, si kenshi ubukwe bw’Abazungu bunini cyangwa buhenze bugira icyo bumara ku kubaka urugo rukomeye. Mu myaka yashize, imiryango myinshi yakoze ubukwe buhenze yagiye icikamo, mu gihe muri Afurika henshi imiryango yakoreze ubukwe gakondo ikunze kuramba kurusha iyakoresheje ubukwe buhenze.

Ubukwe bwombi bukundwa cyane kuko buri bwose bugira icyanga cyabwo n’ubusobanuro bwagutse. Abageni benshi bamara imyaka cyangwa amezi menshi bategura ibirori bitazibagirana: guhitamo inyubako, amafunguro, imyambaro, imitako n’urugendo rw’ukwezi kwa buki.

Ariko nubwo haba ibara ry’imyambaro, indabyo, imitako n’ibirori bikomeye, ikintu cy’ingenzi kurusha ibindi ni isezerano ubwacyo. Ni uguhitamo uwo muzabana neza, kwitegura mu mutima no kumenya ko ubukwe ari intangiriro y’urugendo rurerure rusaba kumva no kwihangana.

Ubukwe bushobora kuba butandukanye mu buryo bukorwa, ariko ubutumwa bwabwo burahura: guhuzwa n’urukundo, kubaka umuryango no gutangira inzira nshya y’ubuzima.

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